“Mi trattano come un intruso”
Intruso: (ITALIAN sm/f) (estraneo) intruder, (ad un ricevimento) gatecrasher
Example:
“mi trattano come un intruso” “They treat me as if I had no right to be there.”1
I was thinking about penning something but could not think of anything viable. Then suddenly it struck me, how about writing about being an outsider the whole life and coping with that.
My earliest memories include running around the house and getting kicked out of the kitchen by mom. So that lesson was engraved deep inside me: You are an outsider in her realm, which included the kitchen and most of the house, and you got to be complying with her terms. As time passed and my grazing fields expanded, I was an outsider at our own farm. Trust me, the farmhands always considered it their domain and I, a potential heir of the land, was an interloper.
The next degree of the treatment came when I started meeting other kids from the
Things didn’t change much in the school where those who live within the city, (of Pala – no, I am not giving any translation this time, it is a short enough name) all of us who are from the suburb/farm-lands as uncivilized barbarians. The only thing barbaric about us is the places that we were hailing from, but that too, only as perceived by them. We just labeled them wimpy and assured ourselves of our superiority.
The feeling of being a gatecrasher never ended from then on. When I went to a boarding school in a different city, I was an automatic outsider and no economics teacher could resist making me the butt of some joke on my town with a story that involved a big time bank from my town getting liquidated around fifty years ago. Oh Jesus, please save us sons and daughters of Pala from the legacy of the Pala Central Bank, like you saved us all from the original sin.
Next, when I went to St. Aloysius College) in Mangalore, it didn’t help being a mallu (Short form of Malayalee, a native of my state Kerala) when there was nothing cooler for my friends than cracking mallu jokes, targeting the stereotypical accent, migrant nature etc.2 Again, it was a
Later, at the engineering school at Adoor or working in
As you may have read already in the “Ingress Into The Land Of The Free (And The Home Of The Brave”4 article, I was a total stranger in
Reference:
- http://dictionary.reverso.net/italian-english/intruso
- Read more mallu jokes here at http://copystuff.blogspot.com/2006/01/mallu-jokes.html it has an awesome collection, gathered by a mallu, for sure.
- http://www.mayflower.com/moving/relocation-services/moving-tips/facts-about-moving.htm
- http://domesticavalanche.blogspot.com/2007/04/ingress-into-land-of-free-and-home-of.html
3 Comments:
Hey Paps, good one. I enjoyed reading it. You're awesome as always. Keep writing more and more.
Elizabeth Joyce George
Ohio
10/03/2007
read 'the outsider'.albert camus.
cool. i ll be back to read more
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